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About FTFT

Why this website exists

I'm the sibling of a hikikomori. Through all the years my family spent finding our way, I kept wishing we had something like this: a place to understand what everyone else in the house was feeling, when none of us could say it out loud. That wish is why FTFT exists: I decided to build the thing my family never had.

FTFT is here so that parents, siblings, and hikikomori themselves can see each other's perspectives. A little understanding can turn a household of people struggling separately into a family working together, even through the most difficult times. I've walked beside my own family through the ups and the downs. If what we learned can make the road even a little gentler for another family, then this site is doing its job.

Thank you for being here. Take your time — the tanuki isn't going anywhere. 🦝

— FTFT's founder, a sibling

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A thought, a correction, a place we should add, or just something you want to say — we read everything. Name and email are optional; staying anonymous is completely fine.